Firstly, I need to salute all the homemakers, and let me congratulate all of you if your husband is doing great in the corporate world and your kids are outshining. It’s all your efforts due to which all your family members have been excelling. I know what you must be thinking. No, it’s not you who should be given credit. It’s their efforts only, but to me, no, I say that you are the driving force behind them.
Let them say whatever they wish to for not completing a small task, but look at the broader aspect, you have left your family after marriage and then your profession so that your family can excel. So the results have been outstanding. In this post, we will read the insightful thoughts and tips on how a Modern woman can manage home and work.
I have one small piece of advice for you all, and that is it is equally important to take care of yourself. You are a vital person in the family, and above all, you are also human. You have all the right to remain fit, healthy, and groom. So, while you are taking care of your family, wake up half an hour early and go for a walk, take a bath, and get ready.
Being ready, I am not asking you to wear only selected five dresses you have kept aside from your home. No, I was hoping you could wear a decent collection, not so expensive like from Bombay Selection, or designer wear, but for daily wear, you need to have a good collection and should wear that every day. I know you must think about who is watching and who bothers; there is no one I should get ready for. For that, I would like to answer – “get ready for you” pamper yourself.
Yes, you should feel proud of yourself. And you are your best critic, do try new colors and dresses and styles of draping clothes, you will have a whole new makeover, it will boost your inner personality and makes you confident. Want to know what happens when you look stunning each day.
- Feel young & peppy: Being groomed will make people come and talk to you. You love visiting your salon regularly, and once this gets into your habit. You will have a passion for looking good and fashionable, whether at home or at parties. And see the change and compliments flowing in from everywhere.
- For your husband: Add spice and style to your monotonous life. He will love you, respect you even more, and care for you.
- For your kids, they too have a social circle, and they want their mom to outshine other mothers. As we compare our kids with others, they also compare us with other parents. They would love to see you dress up smartly, speaking confidently, and flaunting new dresses and fashion. Kid’s mom circle will admire you as well. You generate good respect for your kids as well. If you can drive home, then it’s a great feeling for your kids.
- For society: You will see that women would like to talk to you. They wish to know more about you. You must be aware that females have a “J” factor within them. When you nicely dress up, they would like to talk to and keep good company. You will generate good respect for yourself in society. Try wearing nice clothes and goes for a good makeover. People will ask you if you have started working somewhere or if your husband recently got a promotion. Then people would like to call you for their parties; you know why because you have got that style, which becomes a status symbol for them. To go or not to go is your choice, but one thing is for sure, you will be getting invites.
- To keep pace with the new generation: Your kids and your kids’ friends and relatives will all admire you for being so young. The younger generation may envy you for your style statement. They will admire you as a fashionista of your family; you will see the buzz around you. Relatives will be eager to see your new look. Every time you walk into a party, what is the latest trend they will get to know through you! They may ask for tips on how to carry you and remain young at such an age. Your kids’ friends, especially girls, will wooh you as soon they meet you. The teacher will also envy! So what else? You have practically become a fashion diva for your known ones!
And this sounds cool. So start acting today, work on your body, fitness, and every aspect, including regular salon visits. Move ahead, and get that fresh and young look. People will respect you for being the super mom as you know how to cook, manage the home, keep your hubby and kids happy, and look cool at the same time. The times have changed; you need to take steps ahead, which you have forgotten all due to managing home only.
Get decked up and get famous. It is convenient. Believe me. All you got to do is know what suits you, and you can carry that with confidence. These days lots of advice is available over the net, so google it. Or download various fashion advice apps available these days. Become a trendy MOM!
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