Women of today are strong yet supportive, independent yet homely, shining yet mellow, and dominating yet submissive. For her, everything else takes a back seat when it comes to the people she loves. At the same time, she is ambitious enough to sort her priorities and knows how to juggle everything awesomely. It is the lovely write-up about today’s lady that will keep you engaged till the last word.
So, what is it that women of today look for in their life-partner when they finally decide to settle down;
Compatibility
The first thing we will talk about in this lovely write-up about today’s lady is compatibility. When you understand your woman, from her face, that she is happy or upset, that is compatibility. When your mom says something to your would-be partner, you know this will upset her. That is compatibility. You, as a partner, should learn to handle such awful situations, which will happen before the wedding day and take a toll on both of you. Marriage is tough, and the sample test comes as wedding preparations. It’s overwhelming, intimidating, and tedious. Compatibility needs deep understanding and support. Boy, be reliable if she wants you to stick around. Learn to make that extra effort when she needs you but can’t say this to you.
Confidence
A young independent woman will always look for a confident man as her life partner. The flare to carry himself confidently and be outrightly the most admired gentleman in the crowd is a must for you, dude. If she is a woman of a healthy mind, she will not feel insecure about owning the best guy around. She will feel proud to have such a guy who is not only charming, stylish competent, and confident but can be fun too. Women of today like men who are healthy and capable enough to handle themselves in the worst situations.
Respect
Women of today know to follow their dreams and achieve them too! Admire your lady for these thoughts and respect her desires. Sometimes, a woman is a child from inside, and she may have funny fears, but walking away or making fun of those thoughts is the worst thing a man can do.
Better is to pamper her at that moment, but later on, you can make her understand and make her deal with her unwanted fears, which would build a good foundation for any successful marriage.
Patience
A mature marriage means a lot of patience in the worst scenarios of life. Therefore, patience is another quality a woman desires in her future life partner. There will be times when situations might go out of control. That is where patience and the presence of the mind will play a vital role. If you are attuned to your partner’s feelings, it shows respect, caring and will reciprocate love and the same. Yes! Her heart will leap with joy!
Independence
She needs her freedom; interference is the worst thing. The best way is to get involved in her life is by talking about her daily life. And discussing matters which both partners are valuing. Similarly, it would be best if you were independent too. Stop being a man waiting for her lady to serve food when she is busy in-office meetings. For a male, your independence reflects your thoughts and the opinion that you carry. Women don’t like an introvert and dull men who lack the motivation to speak when needed. Be a guy who has passion and goals in life and simultaneously handle home with her. Gender roles are not the same as 20 years ago; cooking and handling household chores is now a collective effort for the new generation. Let’s change with time and make her life joyful.
Marriage
Marriage is a huge decision, a leap of faith. A young woman leaves her house, her family to become a part of a new family with little idea. She deserves a life partner who understands her and knows where she is coming and makes her life even more beautiful than before. Hey, Guys! Help her get adjusted, help her understand the family she is now a part of, maintain that required balance between her old and new family, and be there to support her and her ambitions. Of course, you don’t forget her parents too. So, be there as you expected her to be with your parents. Today, things are changing, and girls’ parents stay with their daughter and son-in-law if needed. Her parents are also getting old like yours. They need support and care as your parents need.
Don’t fuss over these issues because the husband-wife works as a team against the live odds.
Sincere thanks to Deepti Chawla for giving real-life inputs and making this write-up a great read.
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